The Rapid Sextcalation Ladder means you never get denied on the cellphone!
Since girls don’t want to be sluts (or, more extensively, women don’t wish to be sexual with just anyone), the receipt of these sext shots created an investment decision. This is usually to say that now that she’s sent these to me, she’s not simply gonna stop talking to me if I’m not sweeping her off her feet, as she’s already crossed a line with me and it would be each healthier for our relationship and more morally acceptable for her to make it work out between us.
As youll be able to imagine, I quickly realized how brilliant seeing women naked was and I soon was making efforts to have these photos as soon as possible. It had been not until just recently (so recently that I didn’t have time to include it in Text To Sex), that I learned something incredible.
I have been through so many text flirting and sexting interactions that it would make you shake your head.
Between sarging every night for a year and a half, to two and a half years of constant bootcamps with the ABCs Of Attraction, I have gotten thousands of numbers. With those thousands of numbers I have had any kind of sext interaction you are able to imagine and have tried everything under the sun.
It was during one of these trial periods that I decided I would see how quickly I could get naked pictures from a woman and stumbled on something amazing. It is INCREDIBLY easy to obtain naked photographs from a woman almost IMMEDIATELY following the Rapid Sextcalation Ladder!
But how do we do it?
I know this is going to sound oversimplified and, even now that I say this, I guarantee you guys are going to try to add things to it, as is always the custom. On the other hand, trust me on this; it is as simple as it can be.
There is one prerequisite, though, that is very important: You must have decent passive value.
This is super important and really not all that tough. You don’t have to get really tall or really good looking, you just have to make the effort; well dressed and good hygiene are the two most important things (and, frankly, if you haven’t figured that out during your trip to become better with women by now, it’s not your sexting that needs work). This system works for me even if I meet a lady on the internet. That’s how strong it is.
In order to get bare photographs in the very first short while, you need three things;
Sexuality,
Compliance,
and Dominance.
Let’s break it down.
Sexuality:
1st thing’s initially, you must have some sexual undercurrent in the conversation. It does not have to generally be much (and, for heaven’s sake, you shouldn’t even be saying sexual things yet mainly because you’re aware of the
Romantic -> Sensual -> Sexual
verbal escalation ladder from Text To Sex, right??), but you should be utilizing Erotic Undertones.
Erotic Undertones are things that force her to think sexually, without actually broaching sexual topics. This also helps her think that she’s come up with sexual ideas on her own, rather than being the recipient of sexual attention.
Example:
Good: “Man, that test was difficult today.” “Darn! So, you don’t like it difficult?”
Bad: “Man, that test was hard today.” “Mmmm. You wanna come over and I’ll make it all better? ”
See how they both force the idea of sexuality into one’s mind, but only one of these creates a situation in which she can actually object to your advances? This is called an Erotic Undertone and should be happening right from the beginning if this is your intended avenue.
Compliance:
Compliance is the next element and, as far as I’m concerned, the most important. What compliance does is utilizes the Yes ladder (the thought that once someone says “Yes” to something, it’s easier to obtain them to say “Yes” to other things), to create investment decision and rapport, so that she will be willing to comply to our requests. We use this with a series of compliance steps; some take a few requests, some acquire many, it depends on the girl and her attitude.
The primary thing we need is her responding, the second thing we need is her to send a picture, the third thing we need is for her to consider a picture for us, and the final thing we need is for her to strip down and THEN get the picture. If you have access to the Text To Intercourse program, you’ll recognize this from the D phase and you’ll know the way to do all of it.
Nevertheless, as opposed to putting it in the D phase, we’re going to get doing it RIGHT AWAY.
Dominance:
Dominance could be the last element and should be everpresent in all of our “sextcalation” interactions (remember; Confidence, Dominance, & Persistence?). Nevertheless, in this case, we’re going to use is as kind of icing to obtain compliance. As opposed to demonstrating dominance to generate attraction, we’re going to use dominance to assist our compliance.
Here’s an example; I Told a girl to send me a picture (due to the fact telling is way more dominant than asking, right?), and she asked me what kind of picture. You’ll get this quite a bit and, as an aside, I always answer with something ambiguous that has EROTIC UNDERTONES (you have been reading from the beginning, right?).
In this case, I said “Something exciting”, which is a great way to insinuate sexuality, especially since you have been dropping erotic undertones from the beginning. Her very first thought goes to bare photos and she asks me if that’s what I want. As an alternative to obtaining all nervous and trying to back down or be goofy about it, I said “That is exactly what i want.”
In many cases, guys will assume that she is for some reason double-checking so she can reject them or doubt them or whatever and that’s asinine. She wants to know how much you wish it and, in this case, the only need to answer is as dominantly as possible, showing her that is exactly what you desire.
Let’s break down the four key elements of the Rapid Sextcalation Ladder one last time.
Passive value: To make sure you don’t lose the battle well before you start to fight).
Sexuality: To receive her in a sexual frame so she comes up with these ideas on her own.
Compliance: To generate investment and use the momentum of the interaction in your advantage.
Dominance: To ensure there are no holes in the seduction.
Now, there are a whole lot of ups and downs in this process and you’ll often get quite a bit of resistance, all of which I teach you to deal with in the Text To Intercourse program available now but, for now, this will work enough to give you the results you need.
I hope this helps and I wish you luck!

JT Tran is the leading dating and lifestyle coach for Asian men using Text to Sex and Sextcalation Ladder. His company the ABCs of Attraction has been featured on NBC, ABC, and on the front pages of New York Magazine, AsianWeek, and LA Weekly. He leads a wide variety of PUA bootcamps, training seminars, and confidence workshops across the nation and internationally.