This subject is really close to my heart because I have a daughter and a granddaughter. My daughter has a friend who has been through this situation and blames herself.

When a person – boy or girl – says “No”, that means “No”, and this is what parents must teach their sons and daughters early and often, that no one has the right to take control over anyone, no matter what the case or under any circumstances.

Every guy should know that just because you are friends, or if you just met a young lady and take her out and spend money on her, it does not make her obligated to you. Forcing her with a weapon or drugging her is a cowardly act. You might have misunderstood the signs she gave you. There is still no excuse if she says No – that means No, even if things get hot and heavy.

I think that every person has the right to protect themself in such situations regardless who the other person is – friend, relative, old relationship, or a person you just met. You have the right to value yourself and feel safe at all times.

That’s why I have my daughter carrying some kind of protection with her at all times. She carries a stun gun because she knows it has enough power to knock a grown man to the ground in seconds, disabling him until she can escape and get help. She feels secure with the stun gun because she knows that she has protection with her at all times.

There are many more personal security products you can carry with you and feel secure, because you know it’s there and know when you need it. There are pepper sprays and personal alarms of different varieties to choose from. The stopping power of these small devices is surprisingly good.

Hopefully, in this article I have given you some enlightenment about protection for young women and men in this day and time. If you like this article, please comment and send it to a friend.

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