What is the C Cycle? Compliance, Convenience, & Connect

Jun 22, 2012 by PalmerMargot618

Over the years now we have had countless numbers of students complain about how mystifying the seduction approach is and exactly how difficult it can be to find out the place an individual stands using a woman. These students have possibly taken plans with other businesses and been left during the dark, or have basically been not able to keep on having difficulties by themselves and have found out that there was a bigger picture they just werent gaining.

The straightforward, but detailed ABCDEF structure
It truly is using this type of, initial confusion in head that we generated the holistic construction in the ABCs of Attraction. Which can be a straightforward, progressive timeline that applies each to individual interactions, as well as the overall frame of the romantic relationship and it really is broken down into 6 phases: An as a result of F (the simple, but in depth ABCDEF framework).
On this collection of articles or blog posts, Ill describe these phases as well as the key features of each, detailing them all and what parts make up every single.
The third of such phases is Do: Compliance, Comfort & Connect.
Youve opened the set and gotten her emotional using BT Spikes, but you know that this wont last long, and youre really interested in seeing what this girl is about. Its time to go beyond the B-Phase, away from the joking (at least momentarily) otherwise youll end up a ZERO CALORIE HUMAN.
Sure you might seem interesting, but scratch the surface and youre actually not giving real human warmth and interaction. Time to BE REAL and go into the C-Phase! Time to BE REAL and go into the C-Phase!
She seems fun, witty, and attractive. all the qualities you desire in a lady, but how do you get closer to her as a person?
The first stage from the C Phase is Compliance.

There are General AND Sexual Compliance Tests you can perform like the Archangel Sexual Compliance Test here.
How do you truly know if shes attracted to you? Many girls, especially the more beautiful ones who are socially experienced at the dating game, give off a lot of IOIs (Indicators of Interest). Not because theyre being a “cock tease”, but they understand they can get good reaction from men if they give off positive IOIs or seem flirty, outgoing and interested. But they doesnt necessary mean they are.
In order to develop the ever-important masculine/feminine and leader/follower body, General Compliance needs to be built up (more on Sexual Compliance in D Phase). This is the procedure of having her execute small tasks for you:
High-fives
Hand-shakes
Moving her in excess of
Moving her around the club
Making her buy you a drink
Making her sit down with you
Etc
This, however, is not as tough as it sounds and, if you are really paying attention, youll notice that isolating her and having her sit down with you are both equally compliance tests, however small. It takes Physical Confidence (a key component of this phase) in order to assert these little trials to gauge her interest.
All these leads up to making it more likely that shell emotionally invest into you and do much larger things for you (for instance, letting you put your penis inside her).
The second stage of the Do Phase is Comfort.

How do you know if youre in Ease and comfort? SIT DOWN WITH HER!!!
As it can be wisely known throughout the community, “The game is played in comfort.”
Developing the two Physical AND Emotional Comfort and ease is the biggest and most important stage that requires compassion, intimacy, and Verbal Attraction (again, a key component of the phase).
There are many ways to do this but, first and foremost, sit down with her!
Shes been on those 4-inch heels and you wanted to isolate anyway, so why not make both equally of you physically comfortable?
After this tiny step has been taken, make her emotionally comfortable by talking about the things you are really interested in and that reflect who she is by asking Comfort Leading Questions such as:
“If you won $10,000,000 inside the lottery, would you spend it? or would you do something with it?”
“If you could fly anywhere inside the world tomorrow, where by would you go and why?”
“Whats your story?”
The idea is build up emotional ease and comfort, making her comfortable with you, and pair-bonding with her in order to make a longer lasting connection than basically running Flash Game from the B-Phase.
The last stage of the C Phase is Connect.

Now its time that she got to know the REAL you and you to get to know the real HER!
Now that weve used our Comfort Leading Questions to build comfort and ease and various General Compliance Tests to gain compliance, we are ready to form a substantial bond between you and this beautiful female.
We do this while allowing our true personality to shine as a result of by using Intimacy Initiators. Some of such methods include discussing both of those your childhood and families, telling her stories about your vulnerabilities and letting her know you have your very own standards by qualifying her. Using the Principle of Reciprocity, you want to elicit her values and stories from her too so its an equal exchange of value.
Your Inner Strength comes into play by revealing truly deep and personal things about you at the same time as accepting her flaws, desires, and ambitions as your personal. To qualify her by stating qualities you seek in a mate, not just settling for the next lady only because she indicated interest, but most importantly, STANDING BY YOUR CHOICES LIKE A MAN.
This portion of your seduction can extend anywhere from 30 minutes to 10 hours (!!), but time spent here is time spent from the most beautiful part of your game; building a connection.
If youve followed all these steps, youve gotten her emotional and made her feel comfortable with you, while building attraction via to an actual connection. At this point, youre ready to show her youre sexually interested in her (because you didnt know until you built that connection, right?) and proceed to the D Phase (Dominant, DirectIntent & Disqualify), the subject in the next article!

JT Tran is the leading dating and lifestyle coach for Asian men using Connect PUA and Compliance Test. His company the ABCs of Attraction has been featured on NBC, ABC, and on the front pages of New York Magazine, AsianWeek, and LA Weekly. He leads a wide variety of PUA bootcamps, training seminars, and confidence workshops across the nation and internationally.