Becoming Dumped, just basic air max90 sucks!
Hurricanes definitely suck. Even if air max90 they do not attain you, they nevertheless threaten your safety net. Florida survived last many years attack of Mother Character, so we are a little additional courageous this yr. Not considerably, but somewhat. I’d like to satisfy the person that pissed her off (Mother Character). Not only does she get even, but she does it with a vengeance. That is like PMS & Menopause all rapped up. So, for all you poor souls that are in for that ride(PMS & Manopause), and have no clue what it is all about, think hurricane. It can turn in a second and destroy you. Oh, and it has a lot of names also, like bitch, nag, crazy, nuts, annoying, female, insane, messed up, pms’ing, hallucinating, on drugs, stupid bitch, mentally challenged, and that is only a few, except they are not in an alphabetical order like the hurricanes. OK so we’re disorganized. BITE ME! You significantly have to be PMS`ing to be able to understand (winks). I can only hope that everyone gets as many air max 95 laughs as I have so significantly typing this.
OK, now onto far more serious issues in life. Today I received a question from a guy. Here is what he said:
“Posted by Anonymous
The last lady I had been involved with was very filled with herself.
So then why did she dump me”
And my answer to him was this… “Posted by Dorothy
Hey there, sorry to hear about your being dumped. Not knowing air max 95 either of you, it is really hard to answer that question. There are a lot of reasons for people walking away from a connection. It could have basic worn out. Also they could have found someone else. Either way, it sucks, and you have to deal with the pain, and learn to get on with your life. It is a challenge, but it does make you aware, of what becoming human is all about. There is a saying; “If it doesn`t kill you. it will only make you stronger.” Also I am a firm believer in: ” Things do happen for a reason.” Hang in there, things will get better, if you let them. Take Care and thank you for sharing that with me.”
“Being Dumped” actually is one of air max 95 the worst experiences, short of death that we, as humans are faced with in our lives. They say that, death of a loved one is easier to learn to live with, than a break-up , “Being Dumped” or rejection.
All of the above, tell us that we are unacceptable to someone. We immediatley turn it into ourselves and that is when the self-blame seed is sown. Through self-blame we begin to feel shame. Shame is so painful, that no one talks about it or even wants to think about it. Shame is the least identified emotion we as humans deal with, because we’re ashamed of our shame. Shame, is yet another negative emotion, that captures and imprisons us in a pit of hell. It pulls us into a life of silence and inactivity, lying and hiding our true fears. When we’re rejected in any situation, it is a true hit to our self-esteem. If we’re weak in that area, then our fall is going to be extremely hard. If we’re strong in that area, we will quickly become weak. I wrote this in a recent blog:
“When we first fall in love; What is that saying, “Love is Blind” Ha! Now that’s funny, because it definitely is blind. We trust so instantly and genuinely that we potentially set ourselves up for the biggest fall in our lives. Why is that Is it because we are so driven by character to want to trust someone Or is trusting someone just a happier, easier, way of life.”
So there it is, we as humans, live to appreciate and want to be loved. We are blinded by the romance of the phrase ~ LOVE~. We are made happy by the word~LOVE~, but we are also hurt by the word ~LOVE~. So why do we continually set ourselves up We’re gambling, and we do not even know it. Or, is life merely just that, a gamble The bottom line is, no one wants to get “DUMPED”, because it is not in our nature to know how to accept it. How many of you have been, “DUMPED” and just knew that your life had ended You just knew that you will never see anything the same again. Well, you were partly correct there. It is like any other change in our lives. Things will be different than we’re use to. Your life has unquestionably not ended. Yes, your partnership has ended using an individual, and maybe it was not expected, but nor are hurricanes or wars. We deal with it all, we have to. We chose to survive. Think of it as starting a new life. Newness is positive and healthy. Look at things differently, and embrace all that newness. Do not fear it. “BEING DUMPED”, is just another chapter in your book of life. If you had no chapters, think how dull your book would be. Now, you can open your self to another chapter, and believe me, there are several. If you spend the rest of your life wondering all the “WHY`S”, just think, you have wasted even far more of your precious time on something that has chosen another road. As for the fact that an individual is, full of themselves, that genuinely has nothing to do with the “Why’s” of “Being Dumped”. Even the most confident people close doors on relationships. They in fact, have far more courage to do so than an individual of less self-confidence, or getting less filled with themselves, so to speak. Who Knows All we know is that the decision has been made and you as a person, with intelligence, must turn the page. Finding stuck in that feeling just makes therapists rich. (wink) Life offers several, many humps and bumps. We trip and fall, over and over again. The trick is to get real good at picking yourself up and dusting off the old dirt. This is life. I told my daughter, when she was struck by her first cupids arrow, “If you are going to get emotionally concerned, be prepared to get emotionally uninvolved.” It’s life! One pretty important thing we must remember; when we are at the bottom and we feel we’re worthless and will never ever TRUST again, it’s is a nothing extra than a human emotion. We know it as doubt. We can over come doubt very easily. Look in the mirror, and tell yourself, that you are UNIQUE, and you are going to make happiness your goal. You must risk all the falls to reach that goal. Letting yourself believe that you are deserving of another partnership is absolutely a risk, again another gamble. But what is life without just a little risk We have the power to overcome our negative self. We air max90 just need to DO IT!!
“Self doubt is not an option!
Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we often might gain
by fearing attempt.”
Shakespear
Dorothy Lafrinere
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