What is the D Phase? Dominant, Direct Intent, Disqualify

Jun 25, 2012 by OfficerJules171

Over the ages weve had 1000s of students complain about how mystifying the seduction process is and exactly how hard it is to learn the place an individual stands by using a female. These pupils have possibly taken applications with other companies and been left in the darkish, or have merely been unable to keep on struggling by themselves and also have found out that there was a bigger picture they just weren’t finding.

The straightforward, but detailed ABCDEF composition
It is actually with this particular, initial confusion in mind that we produced the holistic composition of your ABCs of Attraction. Thats a simple, progressive timeline that applies each to person interactions, along with the complete frame of the relationship and it truly is damaged down into six phases: A via F (the simple, but complete ABCDEF structure).
In this particular sequence of articles or blog posts, I’ll describe these phases and the primary aspects of each, describing them all and what sections make up each.
The fourth of those phases is D: Dominant, Direct Intent & Disqualify.
You’ve built comfort with a beautiful girl and possess discussed many different things. Hopefully, you’re the two becoming attracted to just about every other and building a substantial connection as a result of exploring every other’s worlds by the C-Phase.
Weve now reached the stage that separates the men from the boys!
You have to create SEXUAL TENSION and show her romantic or sexual INTENT. You display that you’re sexually attractive by reaching the Sexual Hook Point. We do this through the three components.
The first component of D Phase is being Dominant.

It is vital to be Dominant, but not overbearing.
This component is VITAL to everyone, but 90% of guys will quail at this point. For Asians and other minorities, this is the single most important step while in the process of seduction.
We as humans are driven by biological urges and instinctual needs. Giving way to these most primal of inklings and demonstrating your oneness with your desires as a man demonstrate several attractive qualities about yourself, also as trigger several attraction switches within a woman.
To women, men are the biological be-all end-all, much like how we feel about women. Being timid can be a sure way to kill attraction while being DOMINANT is more likely to generate attraction.
You have to take control and LEAD her, the two by your actions as your isolate her too as her intellect as you explore the erotic undertones of your conversations and imbue SEXUAL KINO and FANTASY into her head.
The more Physical Confidence, dominance, and manliness we can represent, the more drawn to us she will be.
The second component of D Phase is Direct Intent.

When ready, always show both romantic or sexual Direct Intent!
Being a good conversationalist is only not enough. If you are not already in her “blueprint”, then you may not be automatically placed in her sexual dating pool.
ALL ASIAN PUAS HAVE TO BECOME GOOD AT THIS. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A GOOD ASIAN PUA WHO IS STILL RUNNING INDIRECT GAME. NONE. ZILCH. NADA.
You want to be attractive AND arouse her in order for her to see you as a potential lover. You accomplish this by activating one of her many Sexual Arousal Triggers (e.g. Erotic Thoughts). We can do this by means of many different methods (like sexual kino), the easiest of which are Sexual Leading Questions.
Much like Comfort Leading Questions (used in C to elicit the feeling of comfort), we now use Sexual Leading Questions to turn her thoughts sexual which, when done correctly, will initiate a sexual state in her intellect. This is all about Verbal Attraction.
Building on your sexual attraction by way of wordplay and naughty conversation with questions like:
“What was your first kiss like?”
“Are you dominant or submissive in bed?”
The Asian Fountain of Youth Kiss Close
The last component of D Phase is Disqualify.

Then you should Disqualify so you dont come off as DESPERATE!
This is SUBTLE part of your ABCs construction, because we have based our stack on the actual construction of an emotional connection, rather than on pure sexual escalation, and that is what sets off women’s ASD (Anti-Slut Defense). When a girl feels as though she’s acquiring too turned on (almost irrationally so), her body will warn her that someone is doing this to her and that she needs to be on her guard.
Disqualifying yourself (by saying something like, “It’s too bad you’re not my type”) will allow her logical brain to step in and unhook the ASD, telling it that you’re not trying to sleep with her because she’s, “Not your type.”
This is the part of your composition when Anti-LMR (Last Minute Resistance) tactics are introduced, as well. These tactics (disqualifiers in themselves) are designed to put her logical intellect at ease inside the same way we did by using a general disqualifier before, but by addressing sex specifically (e.g. “I just want to tell you, I’m not sleeping with you tonight”) so that you can keep on to build tension and sexual arousal, without her considering the consequences with the actions.
“If it feels good to YOU, then you’re doing it WRONG!“
-JT “the Asian Playboy” Tran
You’re allowing your possess pleasure to take precedence over her’s, which makes you a horn-dog. ALWAYS STOP FIRST! Whether it’s sexual kino or erotic undertones, YOU ALWAYS STOP FIRST!
The Inner Strength that this kind of selectiveness represents is, as always, a key component of this phase, and is not only a desirable quality to women, but creates more solidity and higher standards in all aspects of your life.
Once you’ve built a true connection and allowed it to sexually escalate by stating your intent and being dominant enough to enforce it, you need to decide what to do within the E Phase (Evaluate, Extract & Escalate), the next part in the seduction and our next article!

JT Tran is the leading dating and lifestyle coach for Asian men on Disqualify Mystery and using a direct opener. His company the ABCs of Attraction has been featured on NBC, ABC, and on the front pages of New York Magazine, AsianWeek, and LA Weekly. He leads a wide variety of PUA bootcamps, training seminars, and confidence workshops across the nation and internationally.