What’s the E Stage? Assess, Extract Escalate

Jun 25, 2012 by LaterVowles398

Around the ages we now have had countless numbers of students complain about how mystifying the seduction process is and the way complicated it’s to determine where a single stands having a lady. These pupils have both taken packages with other organizations and been left during the darkish, or have simply been not able to continue struggling on their own and have learned that there was a bigger image they just weren’t obtaining.

The straightforward, but extensive ABCDEF composition
It’s using this, primary confusion in thoughts that we generated the holistic structure with the ABCs of Attraction. And that is an easy, progressive timeline that applies both equally to unique interactions, in addition to the complete body of a connection and it really is damaged down into six phases: A by F (the easy, but comprehensive ABCDEF construction).
Within this sequence of content, I’ll explain these phases and the major things of each and every, explaining all of them and what pieces make up every single.
The penultimate fifth stage is E: Examine, Extract & Escalate!
Now that you’ve built attraction via the comfort and connection tactics that we discussed, and you’ve gone above and beyond the regular man by showing your sexual interest and slowly turning her on in D Phase, it’s now time to figure out what we want and to finally TAKE IT.
The first component of E Cycle is Consider.

Always know the place you’re going to ISOLATE your girl!
Yes, of course we’re here to meet women and make connections with them, and by now you’ve probably figured out whether or not you like this girl, but let’s look a little deeper. Ask yourself- nay, force yourself to EVALUATE- these important questions before you cross the Rubicon, the Line of No Return:
Is this the type of girl that you want to have a carnal night of ecstasy with?
Or is this girl a little more to you?
Could this be the type of girl that you could see yourself spending a portion of your life with?
While women are inherently sexual creatures, it truly is often very hard to turn an one-night stand into a girlfriend. Women have a very powerful sense of self-worth and, whether rightfully or not, relationships that start out based on sexuality often stay that way because the complications that develop from turning something sex-based into something value-based are many.
Don’t get me wrong, it is possible to turn a sexual partnership into something lasting, but it can be tricky. Now is the time when you have to evaluate if you want to risk it or whether you should call on your great Inner Strength (a key concept of each stage on the ABCs of Attraction) and reserve an orgasm (or two) so that you can show this girl you’re boyfriend material.
The second component of E Stage is Extract.

If you’ve decided that you’d like to take this girl home with you tonight and enhance her most intimate desires, then you better get moving! Extraction is all about LOGISTICS and LOGISTICS IS THE MAN’S DOMAIN!
Once you’ve seeded the extract and you two have decided you’re more than whatever scene is going on around you, feel free to give her the great ABCs extraction excuse designed to spike BT while getting the job done.
Here is really a Field Tested, APB-approved Extraction Excuse.
This is called “Options Extract” (like running the Options Route when you’re while in the field) and an individual I use almost exclusively.
It goes something like this…
While sitting down with her, look her inside the eyes, and smile warmly.
Ask, “Do you want to hear the options you have for an amazing night tonight?“
She will, of course, respond in the positive.
“First, we can blow this Popsicle stand, have an amazing conversation more than this incredible bottle of wine I just bought, listen to an aboriginal music CD I brought all the way from Australia, and look around my picture book of my travels and adventures across the world…”
I pause while sipping my drink, heigtening the Sexual Tension as I look into her eyes.
She will look at you, astounded and in awe, waiting for your next suggestion.
“…Oh, I’m sorry! That’s you’re ONLY option!”
She will laugh and you can whisk her off into the night!
This is what we call Upselling The Extraction.
“Beginners think WHAT to say to a girl.
The Average think HOW to say it to the girl.
The EXPERTS think Wherever to take the girl.”
- JT “the Asian Playboy” Tran
It’s all about how much fun going back to your place and giving her plausible deniability regarding why she’s actually going back with you (She knows it’s not just about your marble collection).
Generating Verbal Attraction (1 from the key components, again), explain the trip or the reason you are going back to your place in great detail, emphasizing every possible positive aspect and, since her BT is way up from all the gaming you’ve already done, she’ll jump at the chance for an adventure!
The third component of E Phase is Escalate.

Momentum is Life. Stillness is Death.
I can’t really be more straightforward than to say that in order to have sex with her, you’re going to have to escalate, sexually. Now is the time! You’ve got her home or whichever place the deed will be done at and now it’s time to make it happen. You’ve already done some sexual kino inside the D Stage and used Sexual Leading Questions to arouse her. This is just the extension of each.
In Escalate, we use all the makeout tips and sex skills we’ve all read in men’s magazines and please her beyond belief.
Of course, this stage is the hardest for some guys. It takes a lot of Physical Confidence, an individual of our key components, to finally break through, and it’s where the rubber meets the road! Inevitably, you will run into LMR (Last Minute Resistance), to which we have 3 primary Anti-LMR tactics, namely:
Pre-Emptive Anti-LMR
Hot Anti-LMR
Cold Anti-LMR
This is exactly where we make good on all the fantasies that we had at the beginning with the sarge and, for some; this is what we have now been waiting for our whole life!
You’ve done it! That’s it! That’s why you went out from the first place. However, there is still much to be thought about, and we’ll handle your Future inside the next F Cycle.

JT Tran is the leading dating and lifestyle coach for Asian men utilizing Sexual Escalation on how to take a girl home. His company the ABCs of Attraction has been featured on NBC, ABC, and on the front pages of New York Magazine, AsianWeek, and LA Weekly. He leads a wide variety of PUA bootcamps, training seminars, and confidence workshops across the nation and internationally.